Christina Billingham
Christina Jane Kathleen Billingham was the first child of Harry and Catherine Billingham, Born on August 13, 1896 in Nathalia, Christina’s father was a drover and came from a family with strong community links, and who were involved with the establishment of the Country Party, later to become the National Party.
In 1911,
and aged only 14 years old, Christina would be forced to take on the role of
primary care giver of her five siblings when her mother Catherine died in June
following the birth of son Archie. Harry
would continue to work in the local area, taking labouring jobs, but no doubt
would struggle raising his young children and a new-born son while grieving for
his wife.
Perhaps
looking for an escape, or the love that her father was unable to show, in 1913,
only two years after the death of her mother, Christina would find herself
pregnant.
Single
pregnant women (and their children who were born out of wedlock) were taken in
be various charitable endeavours in Australia from the earliest days of white
settlement. For the Billingham’s, having
a niece in ‘the family way’ at a time when they were building their political
and community reputation, Christina would have been a problem and this may have
been the main motivation for sending her to Melbourne where she would remain
until she gave birth. This wouldn’t have
been a pleasant experience for the young girl with many of these institutions
taking a punitive approach to their ‘care’.
On February
25, 1914, Christina would give birth to a baby girl. She was 17 and on her own and, following the
birth would remain in Melbourne working as a domestic. The baby would be adopted out and Christine
would never see her again. Strangely
though, she would live in the same suburb that her child would grow up in.
Three years
later, in March 1917, Christina would marry local jockey, Norman Sinclair, and,
whilst the marriage produced four children between 1917 and 1921, it wasn’t a happy
one.
In 1924 and
now living in New South Wales, Christina would file for divorce from the man
who would cause her much pain.
Following
their marriage and living in Malvern, Christina would continue to work until
two weeks before the birth of their first child in June. And, according to the papers lodged, appeared
to be the primary money maker with Norman reliant on her income. In July 1917,
Christina would take Norman to Court to get him to support her and their
child. In August 1917, Norman would be
arrested and imprisoned for not paying the court ordered support or the surety
of 50 pounds.
Norman
would be released from prison on the proviso that he made a home for Christina
and they would live together, this time in Toorak with their second child born
in July 1918. During this time, Norman
become violent towards Christina and the couple would move again, first to Port
Melbourne and then to South Melbourne.
Their third child was born in July 1920.
According
to the divorce application, Norman advised Christina that he was sick of
marriage, sold all of their furniture and handed her one pound before he left her with
no home. Leaving her children with a
neighbour, Christina would spend the night at the Police Station with nowhere
to go.
Again
pregnant, Christina would live in a boarding house, going to court again to
fight for support from Norman who would promise to make a new home and then renege. This pattern of behaviour was repeated before
Christina became ill and was taken in by the Salvation Army. Her two older children would be sent to a
Children’s Home and Christina would give birth to her last child in September
1921 at the Salvation Army Maternity Hospital in Fitzroy where she would remain
for the next ten months.
At this
time, Christina would find work on Gunbar Station in Carathool, New South
Wales, moving there with her children to begin a new life. But not before she cut her ties with Norman.
In 1923,
Norman had been charged and imprisoned for the indecent assault of a boy. In addition, he failed to make any effort to financially
support Christina or their children.
Christina would lodge her divorce papers in New South Wales on April 16,
1924.
Christina
would spend 20 years at Gunbar Station before moving to Parkes in 1943 and then
to Sydney, living with her oldest son until her death on May 13, 1972. Whilst she may never have found a man worthy
of her strength, she did have the love and support of the children she fought
to bring up in a safe and stable environment.
And the
baby girl she gave up in 1914, she would grow up under the name of Imilda Maude
Robinson, and marry Edward William Heard.
Christina Billingham
Born: August 13, 1896 Nathalia, Victoria
Died: May 13, 1972, Sydney, New South Wales
Birth mother of Milda Heard, wife of Edward William Heard

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